The image of children someday not growing up with a monogamous culture imposed on them was brought up on a poly list I'm on and I love that image. How interesting it would be to see kids unprogrammed by monogamous, heterosexual expectations. Monogamy and heterosexuality are fine things but not with the assumption that they are the normal human defaults and that all others are negative deviance and sin.
Raising children in a poly family while the world bombards us with images of jealousy equaling romance and routine bigotry equalling lawful normalcy gets old fast.
I'm just grateful and amazed that our children have been so resilient to absorbing that particular line of twaddle.